Ee madhya naku oka pedda doubt vacchindi. As usual its all abt a person and his/her behaviour with others.
Ma frends tho mess lo piccha pati matladutuntey ee topic gurinchi alochincha. Ekkado chadiva, a person has 3 faces. One is wat he sees, one is wat others see and one is wat he is actually.
Manishi tanani tanu chala manchi vadu ani prove chesukodaniki chala try chestadu. Nijanga enduku ala chestado naku ardham kadu. Sarey adi ala vadileddam. Chusey vallenduku mosa potaru? Y does anyone come into a conclusion just by cing the person. Enduku tanaki tana eduti vyakti gurinchi anni telusu ani verey vallaki kuda adey abhiprayam kaliginchatam? antha avasarama?
For example nanney teesukundam. Nenu ikkadiki vacchinappudu ela unnano ippudu ala lenu .Adi naku telusu. Kani nannu appatlo chusina vallu ippudu nenu alaney untanu ani verey vallaki enduku cheppatam? valla abhiprayalu marchukoru pakkana valla meeda kuda ruddadam deniki? My frend says, sai nuvvu ilanti danivey kada ani. Tanaki em telusu nenu elanti danni anedi? Mansihi eppudu oke laga undadu ani nenu ee madhya telusu kunnanu. Adi tanu eppudu ardham chesukuntundi. Tanu aney kadu evaraina adey tappu chestaru.
Ma annayya antadu, "nuvvu ela unna, verey vallaki inko vidhanga kanipistavu. Adi nuvvu kavalani cheyyakapoyina adi ala jarugutundi. Eduti vadu nee gurichi anni telusu kovali ani tapistadey kani tanani tanu marchukodaniki prayatninchadu".
Inkoti entantey, manam mana frends okkokkari tho oko laga behave chestam. Andari tho oke laga undam. Avunu mana istam adi. Adi kuda pakak vallaki problem anta. Andari tho okey laga enduku behave cheyyavu ani. Adi mana meeda ney kadu eduti vyakti meeda kuda adhara padi untundi. Nannu ela chustey nenu ala chusta antey kudaraka povacchu. Kani andaru oke laga untaru ani kuda tappemo.
emo malli idi oka confusion. Evaritho ela undalo ardham kadu, ela undalo ardham kadu.
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hi,
I dont think my intro is required for u.. let me comment on ur block abt ur confusion.
ur true that people have 3 faces and ppl try to show their real face as very good.. and this is the behaviour of every one.. and the reason very simple..
The face of a person always runs on two things; one being the attracting and other being the hating.
when ever a person wants to attract some one he shows his best face(u show ur best face with ur friends whom u want to attract so that that person is with u for all time and u may show ur inner face to the closed ones) and when u start hating which may be due to jealousy or other things u show the face with other feelings and this face is being the communicated all over from mouth to mouth..
I think this will clear ur confusion.. that is why i think when u came to ur new place u might have shown ur normal face and when u started hating u made ur new faces..
I hope i have cleared ur confusion..
thanx anonymous..but i also asked y all this?? and when a person has his/her own opinions..let them keep it for themselves , y to tell them to others and create an opinion convi to them??y to bias??
and lemme clr u... nenu change ayyanu antey it was reg my opinion abt ppl around me and not reg changing faces :P
i never hated any1, i had my opinions which were changed when i came here.
manishi maratadu..so edutivallu valla abhiprayalu enduku marchukoru? y do they stick to their own impressions abt that person?
why all these?.. and why to bias?.. is just a social activity that happens all time.. to be specific ppl always bias their opinion to others just to have a mental unified strenght so that they can together like or dislike the person this is in turn a attracting the person. ok let me tell u giving a example..
If a person wants to bias bad on me he first finds a person who is disliking me (or) a person who has just got hurt from me (or) may be unknow; and biases.. not to the person who feels good abt me or close to me.. and tries to get a mental unification.. right?..
For ur question regarding why ppl wont change their opinion even if u have changed..
change in the opinion abt a person is very lenghty and time consumming thing for this u always need prove to that person, that u have changed (Belive me,for every one, it is never easy to show that they have changed, to the person who has wrong impression)
But surely, u can change the opinion; no one sticks to one opinion,... if u really want to change.. just to talk to that person (again a difficult tast)...
thanx for ur convincing answer ... i think this does clear my doubt..
if not everything atleast lil bit
What I feel is, People cant hide the actual personality, and one can easily get the details, but shud go to the need&situational process of past and present.
Like when a person is talking wid you (wether new/old) you can know why is he talking to you, like the cause or the need or the situation. And once you the reason you can always compare the bahaviour with the actual need. just like substraction(differentiation wud be appripirate).
And behind third person talking:
experts say we should never trust one who talks bad about third person and I always keep of em when som1 tries to say somthing bad, and I wud know if there is real bad in that third person.One more thing its waste of time to talk abt third person unless necessary.
regarding faces: people dont have three faces its the situations and ENVironment that have faces by birth no one is BAD. so In ur language ppl wud have many faces.
regarding self expl: the reason behind ppl saying gud things abt themselves lies in reason why ppl exaggerate themselves in resumes or for job. isnt that simple who wants to be rejected?. Talk to meterialistic people you wud be cleared( they wont say gud things abt themslvs coz they wont say anything abt themslvs).
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